Many factors impact Black couples, including financial inequality, racial repression, micro-angers, negative stereotypes, and historical myths. Sexism has also strained Black male and female relationships, causing couples to project negative feelings onto each other due to safer environments. Black love is built over time, requiring effort and adaptability to external forces. It can be affectionate, passionate, strong, difficult, painful, and cherished. Despite its beauty, Black love is rarely portrayed in the media or relationship publications. Couples often struggle to understand their relationship issues due to blind spots. Negative cycles, fueled by defensive tactics, can lead to a relationship's downfall. 

This book, a combined effort from critically acclaimed author Shelly Farrior-Jackson and new author Dr. Reginald L. Dixon, offers insights into successful relationships by discussing each letter of the alphabet's significance. The authors emphasize the importance of friendship, grace, and service in relationships. By sharing their personal and relatable truths, they hope to inspire readers to become better partners and build supportive, enduring relationships.